My definition of a friend

Here is what my definition of a friend is.A friend is someone who is always there for you no matter what and does not expect anything in return. A friend is someone who listens without judging. A friend is someone who does not try to force others to do things that are hurtful or triggering. A friend is someone who does not bail out on someone when the going gets tough or hard.A friend is someone who accepts someone else as they are and doesn't try to change them. A friend is someone who validates feelings and emotions and does not belittle them.

There is someone in my life who is a new friend. This person has had everything that is the opposite of what I listed here happen to them and it makes my blood boil.